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M\u016f\u017eeme ... <a title=\"Radostn\u00e9 i smutn\u00e9 d\u011bti\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/www.infe.cz\/radostne-i-smutne-deti\/\">Read more<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Radostn\u00e9 i smutn\u00e9 d\u011bti<\/span><\/a>","datePublished":"2019-06-01","dateModified":"2019-06-01","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.infe.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.infe.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/da76ffe9456a057fb26f92cd8eb3d2effca853864e9ae2a35290bd1e10b1f7d4?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/da76ffe9456a057fb26f92cd8eb3d2effca853864e9ae2a35290bd1e10b1f7d4?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"infe.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.infe.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a347233_w2056_t1561458049.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.infe.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a347233_w2056_t1561458049.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.infe.cz\/radostne-i-smutne-deti\/","about":["Zbo\u017e\u00ed"],"wordCount":626,"articleBody":"D\u011bti, to je budoucnost ka\u017ed\u00e9ho n\u00e1roda. Jsou radost\u00ed i starost\u00ed v\u0161ech rodi\u010d\u016f, prarodi\u010d\u016f. Je jedno, jestli jsou vlastn\u00ed \u010di nevlastn\u00ed, m\u011bli bychom je m\u00edt r\u00e1di bez ohledu na v\u0161e a na okol\u00ed. Bohu\u017eel ne v\u017edy tomu tak je. Jsou d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 trp\u00ed vinou rodi\u010d\u016f, soci\u00e1ln\u00edho vy\u0159azen\u00ed ze spole\u010dnosti, kv\u016fli zemi, ve kter\u00e9 se narodili. M\u016f\u017eeme \u201etrestat\u201c d\u011bti za n\u011bco, co nedok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed ovlivnit?D\u011aTI V\u00a0NORM\u00c1LN\u00cdCH RODIN\u00c1CH\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Takov\u00e9 d\u011bti jsou na tom asi nejl\u00e9pe, jestli\u017ee na nich nedoch\u00e1z\u00ed k\u00a0n\u00e1sil\u00ed. Je rozd\u00edl d\u00edt\u011b \u201cplesknout\u201c, kdy\u017e n\u011bco v\u00e1\u017en\u00e9ho provede a je rozd\u00edl d\u00edt\u011b \u201cml\u00e1tit\u201c a t\u00fdrat ho. Kde je ale tato hranice? Je to velmi tenk\u00e1 linka, pokud je to v\u00fdchovn\u00e9, doporu\u010duje to i v\u011bt\u0161ina l\u00e9ka\u0159\u016f, nem\u016f\u017eeme si p\u0159ece jako rodi\u010de nechat p\u0159er\u016fst d\u011bti p\u0159es hlavu. Kdy\u017e je ale d\u00edt\u011b bit\u00e9 bez zjevn\u00fdch d\u016fvod\u016f, m\u011bli bychom zas\u00e1hnout. Ne v\u0161echny d\u011bti maj\u00ed p\u0159izp\u016fsoben\u00e9 my\u0161len\u00ed na \u201cdomlouvac\u00ed metodu\u201c. Netvrd\u00edm, \u017ee domlouv\u00e1n\u00ed nepom\u00e1h\u00e1, ale v\u011bt\u0161ina t\u011bchto d\u011bt\u00ed si potom m\u016f\u017ee myslet, \u017ee jim vlastn\u011b projde v\u0161e, co ud\u011blaj\u00ed. Sama to zn\u00e1m z\u00a0vlastn\u00ed zku\u0161enosti, d\u00edt\u011b nejmenovan\u00fdch soused\u016f si dovoluje na ostatn\u00ed, i kdy\u017e je to s\u00a0n\u00edm prob\u00edr\u00e1no ve \u0161kole, p\u0159ijde dom\u016f a rodi\u010de mu akor\u00e1t \u0159eknou: \u201eTohle se ned\u011bl\u00e1\u201c. Chv\u00edli je klid, ale pak to za\u010dne nanovo.D\u011aTI V\u00a0D\u011aTSK\u00ddCH DOMOVECHJsou d\u011bti, kter\u00e9 se nep\u0159\u00edzn\u00ed osudu ocitly v\u00a0d\u011btsk\u00fdch domovech. Jsou takov\u00e9 domovy, kter\u00e9 berou d\u011bti na dovolenou, v\u00fdlety a mnohdy je o n\u011b postar\u00e1no mnohem l\u00e9pe ne\u017e tam, kde vyr\u016fstaly. Ale pak jsou tu takov\u00e9 domovy, kde je d\u00edt\u011b r\u00e1do, \u017ee m\u00e1 alespo\u0148 n\u011bco tepl\u00e9ho do \u017ealudku, jednu hra\u010dku jen pro sebe a n\u011bjak\u00e9 to oble\u010den\u00ed. Od kamar\u00e1da, kter\u00fd si vzal d\u00edt\u011b z\u00a0d\u011btsk\u00e9ho domova, \u017eilo p\u0159edt\u00edm u matky, kter\u00e1 se o n\u011bj nestala a pen\u00edze, co j\u00ed byly pos\u00edl\u00e1ny na d\u00edt\u011b rozfofrovala, v\u00edm \u017ee mu sama \u0159editelka domova ozn\u00e1mila, \u017ee mu nem\u016f\u017ee d\u00e1t skoro nic sebou, ne proto, aby d\u00edt\u011b \u0161lo z\u00a0domova s \u201chol\u00fdm zadkem\u201c, ale proto \u017ee nemaj\u00ed pot\u0159ebn\u00e9 finance. Kdy\u017e si ho odv\u00e1d\u011bl, m\u011bl akor\u00e1t dva kusy spodn\u00edho pr\u00e1dla, dva p\u00e1ry pono\u017eek, jedno d\u00edrkovan\u00e9 py\u017eamo, tri\u010dko, tepl\u00e1ky a star\u0161\u00ed \u0161us\u0165\u00e1kovou bundu, oble\u010den\u00ed, kter\u00e9 m\u011blo na sob\u011b. Ne v\u0161echny domovy nab\u00edzej\u00ed komfort a v\u011bt\u0161ina d\u011bt\u00ed, kter\u00e9 z\u00a0nich odejdou, si cel\u00fd \u017eivot pamatuj\u00ed, jak \u017eily p\u0159ed t\u00edm, ne\u017e se dostaly do rodin.D\u011aTI P\u0158IST\u011aHOVALC\u016e A UPRCHL\u00cdK\u016eTakov\u00e9 d\u011bti jsou vlastn\u011b r\u00e1dy, pokud to tedy dok\u00e1\u017e\u00ed pochopit, \u017ee si zachr\u00e1nily vlastn\u00ed \u017eivot. Tam, kde zu\u0159\u00ed v\u00e1lka, jsou denn\u011b p\u0159ipravov\u00e1ny na smrt, a\u0165 ji\u017e svoji, n\u011bkoho bl\u00edzk\u00e9ho nebo \u00fapln\u011b ciz\u00edho \u010dlov\u011bka. Tyhle d\u011bti maj\u00ed trauma, kter\u00e9 jen tak nezmiz\u00ed. Je stra\u0161n\u00e9, jak n\u011bkte\u0159\u00ed jejich rodi\u010de vyu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed st\u00e1t, kter\u00fd jim poskytl azyl, ale d\u011bti za to p\u0159ece vinit nem\u016f\u017eeme.\u00a0\u00a0D\u011bti by m\u011bli b\u00fdt n\u011bco posv\u00e1tn\u00e9ho,a i kdy\u017e zlob\u00ed, jsou to po\u0159\u00e1d na\u0161e poklady.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Radostn\u00e9 i smutn\u00e9 d\u011bti","item":"https:\/\/www.infe.cz\/radostne-i-smutne-deti\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]